Suicide is not an easy subject to talk about and many people who are having suicidal thoughts may try to hide it. So how do you know if someone close to you is at risk of taking their own life?
Some people are obviously more at risk than others. For example, people who are suffering from depression or any kind of mental illness, those who have been diagnosed with a severe health problem like cancer or HIV, those who are homeless, the elderly or disabled, the unemployed, those in prison, and those who have other family members who have been suicidal or those who have attempted suicide before. Men are also more at risk than women.
Although actual suicide is relatively rare, attempted suicide and suicidal thinking is believed to be quite common.
According to a number of studies, people who experience suicidal thoughts are struggling to find meaning in their lives, they may feel they have little or no control over what happens to them other than to make the decision to live or not to live.
According to the Mental Health Charity Mind, the warning signs you need to look out for include:
- Feelings of failure, loss of self-esteem, isolation and hopelessness
- Sleep problems, particularly waking up early
- Feeling useless and worthless and that there is no point in life
- Neglecting their physical appearance and personal hygiene
- Not eating properly
- Suddenly making out a will or taking out life insurance
- Talking about suicide – Mind say it is a myth that people who talk about suicide don’t go through with it. In fact, most people who have taken their own lives have spoken about it to someone at some point
- Any significant change in behaviour or mood
If you suspect that someone close to you is feeling suicidal then you need to encourage them to get help from a professional as soon as possible and the best place to start is their doctor.
Try to engage with the person and encourage them to talk about their feelings, and be there to listen to them, let them know they are cared for and loved.
It’s also a good idea to gather a list of phone numbers of people, organisations and help lines that you can contact in case of an emergency and keep it near the phone.

New study finds EPA fish oil effective for depressed people
A study carried out by Canadian researchers from Universite de Montreal, McGill, Queen’s and the Universite Laval has found that Omega 3 fatty acid supplements high in EPA can effectively treat depression, provided the depressed person isn’t also suffering from an anxiety disorder.
The study was exploring whether it was possible to use Omega 3 supplements to fight depression instead of using anti depressant drugs like Prozac or Paxil, which also carry some unpleasant side effects.
“Many of these (alternative) treatments have not been adequately evaluated” said Francois Lesperance, director of the study and head of psychiatry at the Universite de Montreal hospital centre, reported The Montreal Gazette.
The study involved a total of 432 people from Quebec and Ontario. Over a period of 8 weeks, half of the participants took 3 capsules of Omega 3 fish oil a day. The Omega 3 fish oil that was used in the study had a high concentration of Eicosapentaenoic acid or EPA, which is an Omega 3 fatty acid that can be found in oily fish like Salmon, Tuna, Herring, Sardines and Mackerel.
The other half of the participants took 3 capsules of a placebo which contained just sunflower oil that had been flavoured with fish oil.
Throughout the 8 week period all of the participants were asked to complete a questionnaire which evaluated their symptoms of depression.
The results showed that although there was an overall improvement in the group using the Omega 3 fish oil capsules, there was quite a significant improvement in a sub group of the study where the individuals were suffering from depression but did not also suffer from an anxiety disorder.
There have been numerous studies to date which have revealed that a lack of Omega 3 fatty acids in the diet could contribute towards depression, however, the researchers noted that if someone is depressed, they won’t necessarily find relief from eating large quantities of fish as the high concentration of Omega 3 fatty acid used in the study would not be available in an average diet.
The researchers are advising people to speak to their doctor if they are depressed and want to try a course of fish oil supplements.
The Montreal study was published in June 2010 in the online Journal of Clinical Psychiatry.